People do it on purpose, and are heartbroken when it doesn't work.Problems playing this file? See media help. We are so thankful, because it would have taken a few years of saving up in order to afford treatment just to have one.

We had to have them naturally, or it wasn't going to happen (and no, adoption isn't free either, and yes it we wanted to try that too) Not sure what happened, but after the first pregnancy happened (at a point when I was loosing hope.four years trying age 21-26) we had them back to back. It's about $12,000 PER ATTEMPT, and that doesn't include the $3,000 for the medications. Insurance only covered diagnosis, which was inconclusive. Took us a few years for the first one, to the point that we were terrified we would never have any. Our marriage is great (and no.we didn't do it for that reason.but because we enjoy having a family so much, and we wanted a large family from the start). For what it is worth, I celebrate all of you - so many I differ with philosophically but still look forward to reading your comments! Be happy, Pandas! Using the crappiness of others to reationalize being crappy yourself is awful and ridiculous. If you have made a choice that enhances your life and makes you happy, screw the expectations of others! Ignore shitty attitudes and try as much as possible to not absorb their snarkiness into yourself. That being said, I constantly get asked 'are you going to try for a girl?' Despite having lost my daughter at birth and being almost 40.

I am happy with my choices and their results. While the wife part turned out to be a disaster - more due to my awful partner choosing abilities than anything else - I am a happy, proud mother of two boys, both of whom were planned, with a degree in forensic psychology and a thriving fencing instruction business. I also wanted to be a pirate and psychologist. I always knee that I wanted to be a wife and mother, because I come from a big, happy family and had a wonderful mother who set a beautiful example for me. I genuinely don't understand this seemingly reflexive need to justify one's decisions by mocking the decisions of others. Upvotes Follow Unfollow 3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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